Courageous Caitie

The little girl’s name is Caitlin Soleil Lucas, or Caitie. She is 3 years old and diagnosed with a rare kind of cancer.

It all started with ‘insect bite’-like rashes that showed up on her legs last September. This progressed to critical symptoms such as severe abdominal pain, enlarged spleen and liver, abnormal CBC and chronic diarrhea, among others. Caitie has since gone through a series of procedures and tests for life-threatening diseases, including bone marrow aspirations and blood transfusions.

Because of the rarity of her condition, Caitie’s family had to go through the agony of not having a diagnosis for over two months, and therefore not having a definite treatment plan. Finally, after transferring to Singapore to seek more advanced medical testing and treatment, the doctors have arrived at a diagnosis.

She is diagnosed to have Juvenile Myelomonocytic Leukemia, a rare form of leukemia that affects 1.2 out of one million children ages 4 and below.  Continue reading “Courageous Caitie”

Chasing Dreams 2016

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I realized that redesigning the blog periodically is as important to me as the actual creation of content. Designing this blog is part of my creative expression, and therefore an essential part of my creative process. I guess that’s why, when I was feeling drained and uninspired at the beginning of this year, I kinda knew that it was time for some design therapy around here.

So here we are. Continue reading “Chasing Dreams 2016”

School of Styling’s Launch & Tablescape Workshop

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School of Styling Philippines

Once upon a time I took a whack at tablescape styling. Some of you will remember my short stint setting up candy and dessert buffets back in 2013. (Allow me to refresh your memory, ehem.)

I was really fascinated with event styling at the time, except I knew I could only manage styling a table and not an entire venue, lol! So my husband and I started a dessert buffet business and it was sooo much fun. I loved that people actually wanted to pay me to style tables haha. And while we had to let the business go after a year (because events were taking over all of our weekends, for one), my fascination with tablescapes went on, tucked away in the corners of my Pinterest boards.

Fast forward to 2016 and my friend Sheila told me about School of Styling‘s launch and invited me to go. The idea that a “School of Styling” now exists in the Philippines is such a great news, and it was even more exciting for me that the first set of workshops was all about tablescapes and table setting. I knew I had to be there!  Continue reading “School of Styling’s Launch & Tablescape Workshop”

Are You Doing Meaningful Work?

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Doing meaningful work is something that I still sometimes struggle with. In the past ten years I had several career shifts—corporate, freelance, work-from-home, small business, back to corporate, and a couple of side hustles too.

I’m still constantly evaluating myself, thinking about where I really want to invest my time in. One thing I know for sure, God has a unique purpose for ME, in whatever season I’m in, and all my personal and professional experiences, including my God-given gifts, passions, and dreams, are designed for the work that He has called me to do.

So granted I’m still trying to discover this, and maybe I’m not really an “expert” at this yet, but I do know someone who lived his life doing work that changed lives, challenged world views, and has ultimately brought glory to God in every way. His name is John Stott, he passed away four years ago, and he described work this way:

“Work is the expenditure of energy (manual or mental or both) in the service of others, which brings fulfillment to the worker, benefit to the community, and glory to God.

Now, using John Stott’s definition of “work”, I encourage all of us to ask ourselves these questions to assess our jobs, businesses, and other professional or creative pursuits.

1. How much energy do you exert to do your work?

First of all, I love how John Stott defined work as an “expenditure of energy”.

Is there a job that doesn’t require any effort anymore? (If there’s one, where do I sign up?) One could only wish to land in that kind of job! The thing is, when you passionately exert physical or mental energy into something, that thing becomes important to you.

Having a creative business is a lot of hard work. Some people resign from their 8 to 5 jobs to make a living out of their passions, but end up working late into the night baking cookies, handcrafting necklaces, designing logos and websites. They find themselves investing even more time and energy than when they were employed! And yet they couldn’t be happier with their choice.

But this doesn’t apply to creative business owners only. Some of us do 8 to 5 jobs and extend working hours without pay only because we enjoy what we do and we want to produce the best possible output. Even passive income business models require a lot of work before they start earning too.

The point is, we invest time and effort and energy into something because what we do is important to us. How much energy and passion do you put into your work?

2. Are you working to be of service to others?

When we work, we all do some form of service to our bosses, to the organization we’re part of, our families, our country. But are we intentional in being of service to them? Are we doing our work willingly or grudgingly? When was the last time we saw our jobs in light of service and not just for the purpose of earning an income?

What if we start seeing work as service? If not to our boss and clients, to our family and the bigger community we’re part of? What if we start seeing work as the legacy we’ll leave our children?

And what if we start seeing our jobs and businesses—whether we’re making accessories, or baking cookies, or churning out numbers in an Excel file—as service to God, the Real Boss up there?

I think this shift in perspective will change the way we work in so many levels.

3. Does it make you feel fulfilled?

Aha! So it’s not selfish to do work that fulfills us after all. Fulfillment encompasses many things, beyond financial fulfillment. True, it is important that our jobs and businesses sustain our daily financial needs, but we also want it to make us feel happy and alive

The thing is, we can only stay in a job that doesn’t make us happy too long. Sooner or later, salary or job security just won’t cut it anymore and we would ache to do what we really wanted to do in the first place, whatever that is. Story of my life ;)

We can all attest to this one way or another. I believe we do our best work when we feel most fulfilled.

4. Does your work benefit a bigger community?

Finding one’s tribe is very important if we want to launch a business, a cause, or a project. In creating and implementing a Content Marketing strategy, I always raise the importance of being part of a community; better yet, of building a community around your brand. Without a community, your business can only go so far.

It’s an exciting time to be part of the local artist community today! In Manila alone, it’s impossible to not find a specific group you can be part of—there are communities for Moms, calligraphers and letterers, handmade enthusiasts, photographers, designers. You just have to know where to look, and have the courage to make yourself counted.

But this doesn’t only mean finding people you share common interests with; more importantly, this means finding people whom you can support and grow with. I can’t emphasize enough how essential this is not only in expanding your network and market, but also to keep you going.

Being part of Pursuit Manila has been a real blessing to me. In less than 7 months I have gotten to know some of the most passionate and Jesus-loving female creatives I’ve had the pleasure of working with and growing with. Even more amazing is, associating myself with people who uphold the same faith and values only means attracting the right kind of business and opportunities together. 

5. Does it bring glory to God?

For me this is the most important thing. Whatever I’m doing, I strive my best to let His light shine in my work, and to bring Him glory. I want to do work that has eternal value. Something that won’t only serve my family’s needs here on earth, but also reflect back what God has given me to begin with and in the process draw more people to Him.

At the end of the day, there’s got to be more to our work than just paying bills. Doing meaningful work does not only benefit yourself, it has to be done in service to others, to benefit a bigger community, and to bring glory to God.

I mean, we need to work anyway, might as well make it count. ;)

New York, oh New York

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I heaved a sign of relief when our plane landed at JFK after 23 looong hours of travel from Manila to New York. Finally! It’s our first time back in NYC in 5 years, first time to go there as a family, first long flight with the twins.

As we unbuckled the girls off their seats and prepared to step out of the plane, one of the girls, Rain, happily exclaimed, “We’re home Mommy, let’s go!”

The truth is, if you told me 5 years ago that I would be calling New York “home” in this lifetime, I would have laughed in your face and dismissed the idea outright. To me, New York has always been a mysterious city, and sure, one of my favorite cities in the world. It held some of my greatest memories, marked important milestones of my life and our story, and hey, I sure would love to keep coming back! But to call it “home” was, at one point, the farthest thing from my mind.

Nope, not New York City.

But something shifted somewhere, and New York has, somehow, become the very thing in my life I never thought it would or could be: home.

Maybe because I found love in this strange city and we all know how love can make anyone feel grounded. Or maybe because I have learned to see “home” in a whole new light.

Maybe the fact that I didn’t really want this to begin with, that makes being in New York feel.. right. After all, I have known God to work exactly this way. He has a knack for changing hearts and orchestrating circumstances that take us right where He wants and needs us to be, even if it means parting oceans with a rod and defeating giants with a sling.

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It’s been over a month since we landed in New York City and now we’re back in Manila. While the twins weren’t exactly as enthusiastic last week when our plane landed at NAIA Terminal 1 as when we landed at JFK (can’t blame them, it was a long trip and the humid Manila weather wasn’t all that welcoming either), we were just happy to have successfully endured another long flight, to have gained new memories, milestones and answers, and to have spent good quality time with our friends and family.

But most of all I’m grateful that home is not confined to a place, that we can bloom where we’re planted, and the grass is greener where the Lord places us.

He never makes mistakes, nope. And when we trust in that truth, we experience not only the realization of our (personal) dreams but also the blessings of being right in the center of His great, massive, Kingdom-building plan.

I’m still trying to process everything, sifting through photographs, unpacking suitcases, catching up on work and blog posts, making mental notes of everything God has taught us in the past two months. In my mind I’ve already written a book, really!

Hmm. It’s good to be back.

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New York 2015, it’s a wrap

I Wish You All Have Seen Allegiance Broadway

My husband and I happened to have tickets to Allegiance in one of those rare nights Lea Salonga was down with colds and couldn’t make it to the show.

There was a bit of confusion, even disappointment, upon receiving our Playbills and seeing someone else’s name under “Kei Kimura”, the charming and fierce female lead who was supposed to be played by Lea. After all, I’m sure many of us Filipinos went to see Allegiance because of her. I saw many of our kababayans gathered in the lobby of the Longacre Theater before the show, whispering to each other about Lea’s absence.

But the show must go on and the disappointment immediately disappeared soon as Elena Wang, Lea’s understudy, took Kei’s spot on stage with remarkable confidence and grace, nailing it one scene after another. I was curious to see how she would handle “Higher“, a song that was composed especially for Lea, but oh my wow, Elena totally killed it and won me over.

She didn’t just “fill in” for Lea. She totally owned the role, and it made me happy to have witnessed just that.  Continue reading “I Wish You All Have Seen Allegiance Broadway”