Courageous Caitie

The little girl’s name is Caitlin Soleil Lucas, or Caitie. She is 3 years old and diagnosed with a rare kind of cancer.

It all started with ‘insect bite’-like rashes that showed up on her legs last September. This progressed to critical symptoms such as severe abdominal pain, enlarged spleen and liver, abnormal CBC and chronic diarrhea, among others. Caitie has since gone through a series of procedures and tests for life-threatening diseases, including bone marrow aspirations and blood transfusions.

Because of the rarity of her condition, Caitie’s family had to go through the agony of not having a diagnosis for over two months, and therefore not having a definite treatment plan. Finally, after transferring to Singapore to seek more advanced medical testing and treatment, the doctors have arrived at a diagnosis.

She is diagnosed to have Juvenile Myelomonocytic Leukemia, a rare form of leukemia that affects 1.2 out of one million children ages 4 and below.  Continue reading “Courageous Caitie”

Are You Doing Meaningful Work?

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Doing meaningful work is something that I still sometimes struggle with. In the past ten years I had several career shifts—corporate, freelance, work-from-home, small business, back to corporate, and a couple of side hustles too.

I’m still constantly evaluating myself, thinking about where I really want to invest my time in. One thing I know for sure, God has a unique purpose for ME, in whatever season I’m in, and all my personal and professional experiences, including my God-given gifts, passions, and dreams, are designed for the work that He has called me to do.

So granted I’m still trying to discover this, and maybe I’m not really an “expert” at this yet, but I do know someone who lived his life doing work that changed lives, challenged world views, and has ultimately brought glory to God in every way. His name is John Stott, he passed away four years ago, and he described work this way:

“Work is the expenditure of energy (manual or mental or both) in the service of others, which brings fulfillment to the worker, benefit to the community, and glory to God.

Now, using John Stott’s definition of “work”, I encourage all of us to ask ourselves these questions to assess our jobs, businesses, and other professional or creative pursuits.

1. How much energy do you exert to do your work?

First of all, I love how John Stott defined work as an “expenditure of energy”.

Is there a job that doesn’t require any effort anymore? (If there’s one, where do I sign up?) One could only wish to land in that kind of job! The thing is, when you passionately exert physical or mental energy into something, that thing becomes important to you.

Having a creative business is a lot of hard work. Some people resign from their 8 to 5 jobs to make a living out of their passions, but end up working late into the night baking cookies, handcrafting necklaces, designing logos and websites. They find themselves investing even more time and energy than when they were employed! And yet they couldn’t be happier with their choice.

But this doesn’t apply to creative business owners only. Some of us do 8 to 5 jobs and extend working hours without pay only because we enjoy what we do and we want to produce the best possible output. Even passive income business models require a lot of work before they start earning too.

The point is, we invest time and effort and energy into something because what we do is important to us. How much energy and passion do you put into your work?

2. Are you working to be of service to others?

When we work, we all do some form of service to our bosses, to the organization we’re part of, our families, our country. But are we intentional in being of service to them? Are we doing our work willingly or grudgingly? When was the last time we saw our jobs in light of service and not just for the purpose of earning an income?

What if we start seeing work as service? If not to our boss and clients, to our family and the bigger community we’re part of? What if we start seeing work as the legacy we’ll leave our children?

And what if we start seeing our jobs and businesses—whether we’re making accessories, or baking cookies, or churning out numbers in an Excel file—as service to God, the Real Boss up there?

I think this shift in perspective will change the way we work in so many levels.

3. Does it make you feel fulfilled?

Aha! So it’s not selfish to do work that fulfills us after all. Fulfillment encompasses many things, beyond financial fulfillment. True, it is important that our jobs and businesses sustain our daily financial needs, but we also want it to make us feel happy and alive

The thing is, we can only stay in a job that doesn’t make us happy too long. Sooner or later, salary or job security just won’t cut it anymore and we would ache to do what we really wanted to do in the first place, whatever that is. Story of my life ;)

We can all attest to this one way or another. I believe we do our best work when we feel most fulfilled.

4. Does your work benefit a bigger community?

Finding one’s tribe is very important if we want to launch a business, a cause, or a project. In creating and implementing a Content Marketing strategy, I always raise the importance of being part of a community; better yet, of building a community around your brand. Without a community, your business can only go so far.

It’s an exciting time to be part of the local artist community today! In Manila alone, it’s impossible to not find a specific group you can be part of—there are communities for Moms, calligraphers and letterers, handmade enthusiasts, photographers, designers. You just have to know where to look, and have the courage to make yourself counted.

But this doesn’t only mean finding people you share common interests with; more importantly, this means finding people whom you can support and grow with. I can’t emphasize enough how essential this is not only in expanding your network and market, but also to keep you going.

Being part of Pursuit Manila has been a real blessing to me. In less than 7 months I have gotten to know some of the most passionate and Jesus-loving female creatives I’ve had the pleasure of working with and growing with. Even more amazing is, associating myself with people who uphold the same faith and values only means attracting the right kind of business and opportunities together. 

5. Does it bring glory to God?

For me this is the most important thing. Whatever I’m doing, I strive my best to let His light shine in my work, and to bring Him glory. I want to do work that has eternal value. Something that won’t only serve my family’s needs here on earth, but also reflect back what God has given me to begin with and in the process draw more people to Him.

At the end of the day, there’s got to be more to our work than just paying bills. Doing meaningful work does not only benefit yourself, it has to be done in service to others, to benefit a bigger community, and to bring glory to God.

I mean, we need to work anyway, might as well make it count. ;)

Currently 03: Wild Flour, Breakfast, and Sugarlace

Wild Flour, Rada, Makati

Wild Flour, Rada, Makati

I’ve always wondered when I would chance upon an empty table (or an empty seat!) at Wild Flour Cafe. The place is always packed, and I always end up deciding to just come back some other time, except the time never came.

Until a few weeks ago when a friend, who was visiting from Australia and staying in Makati for a few days, told me that her only available time to meet was over breakfast on a Wednesday morning. Like, 7:00AM early. Needless to say, I grabbed the opportunity and had an amazing discovery—early breakfast is the best time to meet anyone in the city! Pre-rush hour commute is bearable, you’ll be back home before lunch, and yes, there will be empty seats at Wild Flour, or wherever your meeting place is for that matter.

So the date was set, and it was perfect. Wild Flour Cafe, the one in Rada Street. Breakfast, coffee, and a decade worth of stories.  Continue reading “Currently 03: Wild Flour, Breakfast, and Sugarlace”

Selah: Pause & Reflect

Lately I’ve been waking up in the morning feeling all sorts of panic. I’ve been losing sleep, juggling too many projects at the same time, getting my deadlines and commitments mixed up, having too many unanswered messages, drowning in lists, bills, codes.

And then there’s the struggle with raising twin toddlers who are growing way too fast, and that nagging guilt that comes with not being able to be there for them as much as I want/need.

That’s not to say that I’m unhappy. There’s so much to be grateful for—I love my job, I have a work setup that’s very supportive of my family’s circumstances, I’m able to earn a bit from something I love to do on the side, I belong to a community I’m passionate about, and have a growing network of clients, collaborators and friends. Most of all, I have two happy and healthy kids, a supportive and loving husband, roof above our heads, food on the table, a warm bed at night.

I guess the “panic” comes from feeling tired all the time, and being frustrated about the lists that never end, the hours that don’t seem to be enough, and the fact that I have to keep working even when sometimes working is the last thing I want to do.  Continue reading “Selah: Pause & Reflect”

Love Him Well

Missing Dad

My Dad wrote these words for me on my 18th birthday. Everyday I remember these words (and every year on March 26 I post it on my wall ️), praying that I will be able to love God well and that it will be evident in my actions, my thoughts, my life. Not an easy thing to do, not at all, but I always remember my Dad’s life and how, as imperfect and challenging as it had been, we can always remember him to have lived these very words—He loved God well.

It’s been exactly 8 years today since my Dad passed away, but his life and his legacy lives on. I’m so blessed and proud to be his daughter, and to have been a recipient of the rewards of his (and my Mom’s) obedience, many of which we still reap, even until today.

I miss you, Daddy! Thank you for setting an example, and for showing us that it’s not impossible to live a life of love and service and passion. Love you always.

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Trust Him With All Your Heart

Proverbs 3:5-6 is my life verse. For someone who can be so doubtful and skeptical and analytical, TRUSTING is just so hard for me to do. My tendency is to make calculated steps; often I find myself needing to see first before I believe.

In the recent years God has taught me a whole new level of trust. I’m not saying I’ve mastered it, not at all, I’m still a work in progress. But one thing I did learn is that sometimes—most times—I don’t need to see one or two or a dozen steps ahead, I just have to say YES to Him, right now, and just trust Him with the details.

Trust becomes easy when you know exactly Who to trust, and for me it’s the One who holds the future (and the present!) in His hands and knows what He’s doing. His promises are real. Whatever you’re going through today, just trust God. He will direct your path, just as He promised He would.